简介:Severalyearsago,whileobservingaparentinggroupinMinnesota1,Iwasstruckbyaconfession2oneofthewomenmadetoherpeers:Shedidn’treallycarethatherhusbanddidthedishesafterdinner.Sure,itwasswell3ofhim,andshehadfriendswhosehusbandsdidless.Butwhatshereallywanted,atthatpointinherday,wasforherhusbandtovolunteertoputthekidstobed.